While Paul McCartney didn’t initially get along with John Lennon’s widow, Yoko Ono, the two seem to have a better relationship today. The pair began to connect after Lennon’s assassination in 1980, and McCartney said that speaking with Ono about John helped him get through his grief. In a 1984 interview with Playboy, Paul McCartney reflected on his reaction to John Lennon’s death and his current relationship with Yoko Ono. McCartney admitted he “never really got on that well” with Yoko when she was with Lennon. The former Beatle says that John changed after meeting her, but he understood he was in love. Following his death, McCartney said he started to get to know her better and found that they have some things in common. “I only started to get to know her after John’s death. I began wanting to know if I could be of any help, because of my old friend. And at first, I was a bit put off by her attitude of ‘I don’t want to be widow of the year.’ That’s what she said. At first, I felt rebuffed and thought, Oh well, great! Well, sod you! But then I thought, Wait a minute, come on. She’s had the tragedy of a lifetime here, and I’m being crazy and insensitive to say, ‘Well, if you’re not going to be nice to me, I’m not going to be nice to you.’ I feel I started to get to know her then, to understand what she was going through instead of only my point of view all the time… which I think is part of growing up anyway. And I think then I was able to find quite a lot of things in common with Yoko.”
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